”You need to stop doing things for someone when you find out it’s expected rather than appreciated”
Rising above mental limitations, which are obstacles in our life journey and slow our progress towards our life goals, is an important spiritual skill that we need to be trained in. #Limitation or a barrier is a self created thought which reduces our power of determination and power to succeed in any life sphere. Suppose I have a broken relationship with a loved one, like a parent or someone else. This causes a belief to set inside my mind that I have been unsuccessful in handling a relationship well. The belief can result in a negative perception that all relationships are sorrow giving. When that perception then starts flowing in our actions and people whom we are close to do not receive the positive energy from us which they should, it starts affecting relationships negatively. Also, sometimes we do not know why a particular person is distancing himself from us when our words and actions towards the person are what they are expecting? In these cases, our mind has been imprisoned by an incorrect belief like the one shared above and that has affected our perception of the other person negatively. In a similar manner, the inner region of our mind is the place where we as children got used to being tied with the different types of ropes of complex feelings or lack of optimism. One should always carry courage to let the things go and move on. I know it’s not simple as that saying, but every new beginning comes from another beginnings end. Sometimes u need to make decision which will hurt your soul but heal your soul. As some people will better your life by being in it, while others will better it by staying out. So, have faith on God as he gives us what we actually need not what we want. Yah! I felt it. Don’t love someone to such an extent that u forget to love yourself. Sometimes the things that you are most afraid of are the things that make you the happiest. When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we looks so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us. The most important, just free yourself from every expectations as we create our heartbreaks through our own expectations. You can’t change the feeling of people about you, so don’t try. Always be happy and live with one who cares about you. Just do everything with a good heart and expect nothing in return…!! A significant reduction in our success rate in coming out of difficult situations is brought about by confusion or a lack of positive conviction.The reason why our hidden potential remains untapped in most cases is a weak consciousness. This weakness is caused by #emotional limitations in the form of weak thoughts and feelings over the years. These thoughts and feelings have been expressed sometimes without us realizing how each thought and feeling is having a powerful negative effect on the situations around us and also on our inner self.. Also, never let your loyalty make a fool of you. One of the hardest decision you’ll ever face in life is choosing whether to walk away or try harder. Ofcourse, it’s sad how the people you were once so close with can become just another stranger you don’t know. But you must make choice to make a change or your life will never change. I’m not saying to give up on things that makes u feel happy, but don’t be a prisoner to the things that you can’t change. I have very much realized the three things that we are not always going to get the closure or the explanation we think we deserve, secondly, we have to accept something for what it is and move on and the last that everything does happen for a reason. And you also need to learn the same in order to take your journey on a happy and successful path. It’s true that no one has that perfect life which begin with ”Once upon a time” and ends with ”Happily ever after”. Life begins with ”Welcome to the struggle” and ends with ” You are lucky to have survived the journey”. If u expect good from others and wait for happy moments. you will wait forever…. Remember, All #problems are stuck between the Mind and Matter…. If you don’t Mind, It doesn’t Matter…..! Thanks for watching.
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