I am science teacher in government school.I am also in charge of #co curricular activity of school.Other day I was talking to my students and found that many student think that happiness is their birth right.
I said”dear students ,it is not possible that what ever we do in life, we will end up with results that give us happiness.one must remember happiness is not a default position..our life give us taste of sadness,disappointment, frustrations and failure also”.
I further said”life is not a bed of roses.Every one in life has experience of have- nots also examples of same are listed below for my esteem readers.
1.one could not pass in competitive exam makes one sad.
2.my request to buy such and such mobile phone when turned down by parents leads to frustration.
3.when my brother refuse to work hard for learning higher maths lead to disappoinment in my home.
4.not able to convince my sister to opt for eCommerce subject for higher studies instead of science. lead me to failure in my convincing power.
My student said”Madam happiness and victory are nice little things that also happens to us during our life”
I said”life bundle has many emotions like sadness, frustrations, disappointment, failure etc in it. They teach us many useful lessons in life.”
Another student said”happiness and victory. are positive emotions present in life bundle, they do teach us many things but not to that extent what negative emotions teach us in life”.
I said”bundle of positive and negative emotions together give us feeling of wholeness.Everyone is blessed with wholeness in one’s life. But degree of positive and negative emotions are different in one’s wholeness set. one has unique share of positive and negative emotions.it is one’s skill how one handles one’s wholeness and make full filled happy life.
Sukarma Thareja
Alumnus IITK
India
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