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I am science teacher in government school. I have friend Radha .Her brother is in #army. Every year Radha’s brother will come to her house for #celebrating Rakhi. But this year for some reason he could not #make it. Radha was #disappointed. She told me the same.Â
I said “Radha think this way also, may be your #brother is having some urgent work which he #can not avoid. You are feeling #bad as you are having some #expectations from your brother regarding rakhi #celebrations. Expectations is main factor which can make simple maths of #relationship complex. Radha my advise is friend please keep very little #expectations from others. Your relationship with every person will be #fine. “
I further said ” My friend’s husband is gentleman. But his job is very important and loaded with many important #responsibilities. He sometimes forgets to wish birthday to his wife in #time. My friend is so mature she understands problems of his husband’s job, therefore never expect phone call on her birthday from his husband. See this simple virtue of not keep #expectations from any one makes relationship strong and wonderful. I think ,Radha, #expectations make life very complicated. Sometimes it may creat unnecessary #misunderstandings also. I know friends it is difficult to #train one’s mind in this #direction. But if one is able to do it, things can be very cool in one’s life.Â
sukarma.thareja.knp @gmail.com
Sukarma Thareja
Alumnus IIT K
India
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