I had very good student Yamini in school.She did B.Sc from good college in Delhi.
When ever she will come to visit me she will #complain about fast life of Delhi.She did not like public transport of Delhi.I will always tell Yamini see my dear student because of Delhi you got chance to study in one of top college of Delhi. Immediately after doing B.Sc you got a chance to teach in government school where pay packet is so good.Govt job , means – secure job and there is increment in pay packet every year
I told Yamni “complaining” habit will make you weak dear student. ,Nobody watches your habit more than the two three times. People around you wonder ,why Yamini all day long complaining about what’s happening in the world , the government , your boss etc .
Yamini ,words have a huge impact on how we act and make choices . Your negative visualization of your thoughts and beliefs achieve nothing . Your feelings are irrelevant . Nobody cares ,People naturally spread their own states of mind to others . These people will try to infect you with their mindset leading to frequent interpersonal conflicts ,You lose people with your complaining habits , and they’re not motivated to connect with you ,It affects all areas of your life, your career , your health , your family, and your finances .When you complain you’re spending all your energy and attention focusing on other things at the expense of what you need to do ,The cost of living like this is chaos , stress and fatigue .Therefore Yamini I request you to leave this bad habit of complaining.Concentrate on positive things what you are blessed with and enjoy your life.
Moral of Story- Habit of Complaining is weakness of ones personality.One should overcome this weakness by always believing in positive doing or karma.One should be happy with what one is blessed with.
Sukarma Thareja
Alumnus IIT-K-1986
India
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