The Person Who Tries To Keep,
Everyone Happy Often Ends Up,
Feeling The Loneliest!!!
How many times have you felt loneliness? A lot right? Everyone says that they are with you but sometimes you are lonely deep inside. But now it’s time to stop thinking that you are the only one who is suffering. Don’t think that you are the only one who is alone. I have also felt the way you are feeling, my closest friends have felt that way, even our parents also have felt this way. We all are together in this. You don’t know that the person who has an amazing life on social media is the one who has suffered a lot. People never share that through what they are going, they share the amazing things they feel in their life. We all are familiar with a quote i.e. “don’t judge a book by its cover” so here also it implies that you don’t know that what that person is suffering from, what a person is hiding inside him. What you see is not always true.
I have also felt alone a lot, I myself have been through some horrible experiences, The most horrible, scariest and worst feeling is that when you feel you are alone, no one cares, no one loves you. Lot of people are committing suicide because they think that they don’t have anyone to talk, to relieve their stress.
I’m not saying that feeling lonely isn’t right, you may feel lonely even when you are surrounded by bunch of people. I myself have suffered this problem, I used to surrounded by bunch of people and then also used to feel alone inside. I myself used to laugh like crazy with my friends and talking all day but even though I’ve felt loneliness, I still sometimes feel alone but I am overcoming it because i know that I cannot do anything in my life if i am not happy with myself. You have to learn how can you be happy even when you are alone.Have you ever realised that you are loving everyone else but not yourself. This is the time when you will start loving yourself.
When you look back you realise that there was an ending before a beginning. During that ending you might have been sad, felt alone but eventually those feelings transformed when that ending gave way to a new beginning. You know the harder you fight for the way you are feeling, the harder it is to feel that way. Just let it be there don’t fight for it; the more you will fight, the more you will feel. If you let it be there it is easier to feel that way. The feeling will not be scary or like something you need to avoid.
Researchers have found that loneliness is just as lethal as smoking 15 cigarettes per day. Lonely people are 50% more likely to die prematurely than those with healthy social relationships. So love yourself more and start to make yourself your priority. At the end all i want to say that life is short, live it to fullest and love yourself.
In The End All I Learned Was,
How To Be Strong Alone!!!