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I am science teacher in government school. I help my mother in running kitchen and of course house also as and when I have time to do so..
My mother went to my maternal uncle’s house for 15 days.In that period I realised how much endless planning mother does for running house.
How my mother gets energy for this endless planning, remembering, and organizing events .It will be exhausting in so many ways for me I never understood before.
It was real #education for me. I had to keep #track of groceries, vegetables and fruits.There was so much different categry of mental load inside my brain even if I am attending my school.
I have to book stove gas to be dilvered to my house.I have to collect stiched garments of my mother from tailor. I have to collect dance dress for my youngest sister from school. I had to keep track of my father’s medicine. Is he taking all medicines in time. Is help at home taking care of my father’s food. What else–. I have list of infinite things in my head. I have to keep track of so many dates which I ha ve to follow for some domestic or office event. As a student of physics I must say, I have to keep track of space and time domain relevant to me and family.
My friends say “when your mother is out for few days you look so #anxious.”
In heart of my heart I tell my self alas! I could describe inner #dynamics of myself to someone dear to me. To whom, I have no proper answer.I wish I could share with someone my mental #agony.
These 15 days when my mother was absent from her duties I realised there’s a significant difference between #assisting and #managing an event, and that too when you’re single soul doing same, and you’re forced to take on the management role.
Now I have realised mental hardness is much more difficult than #physical hardness. I have no words to describe the same.
In side my heart I thank my mother from core of my #heart for giving me opportunity to learn differe between managing and assisting.
Managing event of house/ office event is different from assisting same.
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Sukarma Thareja
Alumnus IITK
India
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