I am science teacher in government school. My student Rekha is teaching Mathematics in private school. In 2024 Rekha got married in good family. Her husband works in CPWD.
Other day I met Rekha in school meeting, where we teachers were to discuss different teaching models to help students, who find mathematics #difficult subject. I found Rekha was no more #bubbling with same energy as she used to be in year 2021.
I asked reason for same. She said “madam small things matter in life so much.”
She said ” madam my husband is nice to me, but he never #appreciates me for anything I do for him/family. Instead of that he believes in #criticising me for everything, when ever there is opportunity to do so. Criticism is main issue which give me inferiority #complex .”
I said ” its ok for peace of family some time one has to for go many things. But please try to ignore the same and keep working on your #skills “
I further said ” Some people take #relationships for granted. In Indian families taking care of house hold chores and #children is wife responsibilty. So woman has to face it boldly, as you can’t change system prevailing in #family. Best is to accept the same and do not get unnecessary #anxious about same. But please do work on your skills to develop your personality. I only wish some day your husband will learn importance of #encouragement in life”
I further said “one of my colleague’s wife is very good #cook. When ever we happen to share his home made food we appreciate his wife’s skill. But unfortunately he never passes on our #praise worthy words to his wife. Simply because he does not believe in it. He has wrong #mind set. I wish he could know , this will not cost him anything and improves his mind set in right direction. “
Moral-Appreciation and encouragement are very important skill of personality. It heals sick and #needy people, excels the #talent. It helps #relationships to grow and get better.
Sukarma Thareja
Alumnus IITK
India
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