There are many houses, when you visit them, you find all things are so neat and clean and are kept so #meticulously and unknowingly you start #comparing yourself and appreciating(your friends), how come they can do such big show with such high degree of #accuracy while you(myself) can not. Sometimes you do feel #guilty also.
Then sometimes you do self talking also . “Nevertheless you are so good in making things #functional in your house in your own way. You are good at multitasking . When you are cooking, in between you always give instructions to your kids and teach them #mantras of how to attack problems of #mathematics. In this process you #save lot of your time and time of your dear children. Dear! you make your children wise and make them smart and give them #exposure of saving time while you have so many assignments to be finished in limited #time.‘
I continue with my self talking and say to my self” dear(me)your #aesthetic sense is very good but that does not get chance to come up and #manifest in your home decoration. This is so because being working woman you have so many domestic tasks to be finished in limited time before going to office. So your aesthetic sense do not come up at #priority and takes back seat for you in your house . Its OK dear(me) may be when children grow (enough) old I may be able to do so.”
What sets us #apart? What makes us different from each other is big question. My personal observation is when we shift our attention to personal #growth and happiness, those feelings of #insecurity tend to fade away. Remember, everyone is on their #journey, and everyone’s path is as unique and valuable .
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It’s completely normal to feel a pinch of insecurity when we compare ourselves to others, especially when it seems like they effortlessly #excel in areas we find them challenging. But we must understand accept that every personality has positive(#strength) and negative(weakness) points.
Moral-Never compare yourself with others. Please try to walk on your chosen #path, to full fill #goals of your life.
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Sukarma Thareja
Alumnus IITK
India
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