As I finished drinking my coffee, a sudden thought crossed my mind. For some reason, I quickly translated this thought into my cellphone notepad before it vanished. I believe this message will connect with you deeply and teach you a valuable lesson.
When someone silently hopes for our comfort and understanding, our lack of response feels like abandonment to them. They start questioning their worth and value — wondering why the people they count on remain silent in their time of need.
But mostly, people don't realize the difference between a healthy silence and a silent tricky betrayal.
Selfish people who experience pain want you to rescue them. They want you to become involved in their drama, using tactics that make you believe their pain is real and cannot be ignored. They are experts in exaggerating situations to make it sound like they are truly suffering. Their hidden motive behind this drama is to make you responsible for what they are going through. They crave attention, and if their drama tactics don't work, they'll make things worse by creating a sense of urgency. In some cases, they may even hurt themselves and blame you because, in their story, you are the reason for their suffering.
As someone who studies, analyzes, observes, and understands human nature patterns, you can easily discern and assess the behavior of these individuals. You won't fall for their drama tactics. Instead, you will choose healthy silence, letting them deal with their own pain. And when you choose healthy silence, they may label you as selfish, cold, arrogant, or even narcissistic. To them, it's an insult that, despite all their efforts to make you engage in their drama, you chose to watch them silently battle their own pain.
HEALTHY SILENCE VS. SILENT TRICKY BETRAYAL? TIPS TO CONSIDER
HEALTHY SILENCE is when you allow someone to handle and process their own pain while you silently observe in a distance- ready to step in only when you see they truly cannot handle it alone. It’s about respect and good intentions, allowing them the opportunity to grow and process their emotions in a healthy way.
SILENT TRICKY BETRAYAL is knowing someone is struggling but you choose to remain silent, not because you don't care, but because you believe your own pain is greater. You may feel entitled to not offer help because no one recognizes your own suffering so why should you make the effort to help someone else? This silence comes from unresolved pain and that makes it as harmful as betrayal.
It's easy to spot the difference between someone who truly needs help and someone who uses pain to manipulate others.
If you found this topic on silent tricky betrayal interesting, be sure to check out my other post on Exposing Silent Tricky Betrayal: How Hidden Lies Led to My Valuable Self-Discovery.
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