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Encouragement

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    I am science teacher in government  school. My student Rekha is teaching Mathematics in private school. In 2024 Rekha got married in good family. Her husband works in CPWD.

    Other day I met Rekha in school meeting, where we teachers were to discuss different teaching models to help students, who find mathematics #difficult  subject. I found Rekha was no more #bubbling with same energy as she used to be in year 2021.

    I asked reason for same. She said “madam small things matter in life so much.”

    She said ” madam my husband is nice to me, but he never #appreciates  me for anything I do for him/family. Instead of that he believes in #criticising me for everything,  when ever there is opportunity to do so. Criticism is main issue which give me inferiority  #complex .”

    I said ” its ok for peace of family some time one has to for go many things. But please try to ignore the same and keep working  on your #skills “

    I further  said ” Some people take #relationships  for granted. In Indian families taking care of house hold chores and #children is wife responsibilty. So woman has to face it boldly, as you can’t  change system prevailing in #family. Best is to accept  the same and do not get unnecessary  #anxious about same. But please do work  on your skills to develop  your personality. I only wish some day your husband will learn importance of #encouragement in life”

    I further said “one of my colleague’s wife is very good #cook. When ever we happen  to share his home made food we appreciate  his wife’s skill. But unfortunately he never passes on our #praise worthy words to his wife. Simply because he does not believe in it. He has wrong #mind set. I wish he could know , this will not cost him anything and improves his mind set in right direction. “

    Moral-Appreciation and encouragement are very important  skill of personality. It heals sick and #needy people, excels the #talent. It helps #relationships to grow and get better.

    Sukarma Thareja

    Alumnus IITK

    India

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