Sustaining a successful modern marriage is now more challenging than at any time in the past. People are becoming ‘good’ at getting out of relationships just as quickly as they fall in love. There are some common mistakes that men make behind the end of the relationship. Its evidence is found in some recent data. According to a report published in 2023, in 2022, divorce applications came more from wives in two city corporations of Dhaka. About 7 out of every 10 applications were made by women. And inability to maintain marital life is a major reason behind so many divorces (22.1 percent). Researchers say that many times men make mistakes without their knowledge and put the last nail in the coffin of marital relationship.Â
Let’s know about 3 such mistakes.
1. Â Â Taking a partner for granted
Many women complain that their spouses are great as lovers. But it changed after marriage. Now he is not as enthusiastic about it as before. The desire to pay attention to the partner, to appreciate him, to spend time with him has decreased. Many men develop a tendency to take their partner for granted or take it lightly after marriage. Many marriages lose their spark or tension over time. Then a kind of habituation and indifference may develop in married life. But the marriage relationship is such that you have to perform every day. Relationships need to be rekindled. For this reason, there is no alternative to spending quality time with the two of you regularly, creating new and colorful memories.
2. Â Â Not listening to your partner
One of the main reasons why relationships don’t work out today is because one party doesn’t listen to the other. Many times one party does not want any advice or solution. He just wants the other party to listen to him. That’s it, that’s all. Listening to another is the best way to show empathy. As the saying goes, when you are being listened to by another person, your healing process starts from that moment. On the other hand, men complain about marriage, women do not take their solutions. In fact, sometimes it’s more important to just listen to your partner than to give a solution. Understanding his crisis, emotions, feelings, perspectives to evaluate that’s really enough.
3. Â Â Do not touch housework
At this time, many men think that housework, child rearing – these are only women’s responsibilities. There are many types of complications in marriage just because of not cooperating in various household tasks. There are misunderstandings in marriage. If you can’t help your female partner with housework, at least be by her side during work. Keep company tell a story.
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