I am science teacher in government school. In my neighbor hood lives very nice lady Mrs Mathur. I fondly call her, aunt Mathur.
Mrs Mathur is primary school teacher. I am very friendly with her. Recently she bought small #diamond necklace with her hard earned #savings. I am so so happy with her recent purchase of diamond necklace. This purchase is her “wish” come true.
Radha, Mrs Mathur’s sister in law was in habit of comparing her jewelry with Mrs Mathur jewelry. Radha’s this bad habit of ₹comparing every thing with Mrs Mathur made her own life very #difficult.
Sita’s younger to Radha(sister in law) was in bad habit of #criticizing Mrs Mathur for her recent purchase of diamond necklace. Sita’s argument was that there is no use of buying diamond jewelry as it does have any #re sale value.
I said ” dear Radha stop comparing yourself with Mrs Mathur. Your #personality has many positive points. Same is applicable to Mrs Mathur. By comparing you are #disturbing your stable personality.”
I am happy Radha accepted my advise and stopped comparing her self with Mrs Mathur.
I further said ” dear Sita please stop #criticizing Mrs Mathur. This habit is not good for you. Unnecessary you are buying #conflicts with Mrs Mathur for no reason.”
Fortunately dear Sita also accepted my advise and stopped criticizing Mrs Mathur.
In this #ammicable arrangement of ‘not comparing’ not ‘criticizing’ by dear Radha and dear Sita respectively, there came a very good result of same. There is #pleasant atmosphere in Mathur family.
Mrs Mathur(aunt) is so so happy. She expressed her #gartitude for me, for advising her sister in laws Radha and Sita, how to implement precious laws of life in different difficult #situation of life.
I am also so so happy for Mathur family.
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Moral -Best is to #enjoy life.
Do not make life #difficult by doing comparing activities now and then.
Do not make life #worst by doing criticizing activities now and then.
Sukarma Thareja
Alumnus IITK
India
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