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Helps in Maintaining Postive Outlook

    Sukarma Thareja
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    I am a science teacher in a government school. My student Rekha is teaching Mathematics in a private school. In 2024 Rekha got married to a good family. Her husband works in CPWD.

    The other day I met Rekha in a school meeting, where we teachers were to discuss different teaching models to help students, who find mathematics a difficult subject. I found Rekha was no more bubbling with the same energy as she used to be in the year 2021.

    I asked the reason for the same. She said, “Madam small things matter in life so much.”

    She said ” Madam my husband is nice to me, but he never #appreciates me for anything I do for him/family. Instead of that he believes in #criticizing me for everything whenever there is an opportunity to do so. Criticism is the main issue which gives me inferiority complex .”

    I said ” It is ok for peace of family sometimes one has to forgo many things. But please try to ignore the same and keep working on your #skills “.

    I further said ” Some people take #relationships for granted. In Indian families taking care of household chores and children is the wife's responsibility. So woman has to face it boldly, as you can’t change system prevailing in family. The best is to accept the same and not get unnecessarily anxious about same. But please do work on your skills to develop your personality. I only wish someday your husband will learn the importance of #encouragement in life”.

    I further said “One of my colleague’s wife is very good cook. Whenever we happen to share his homemade food we appreciate his wife’s skill. But unfortunately, he never passes on our #praise-worthy words to his wife. Simply because he does not believe in it. He has the wrong #mindset. I wish he could know, that this will not cost him anything and will improve his mindset in the right direction. “

    Moral: appreciation and encouragement are very important skills of personality. It heals sick and #needy people, and excels the #talent. It helps relationships to grow and get better.

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    Sukarma Thareja

    Alumnus IITK

    India