My Ph.D student Harsh used to tell me"Madam I prefer to study in the library,". From my(teacher) point of view that’s a great reason.
The real reason was also there. It might be that boys are also studying in library and my student Harsh wishes to chit-chat with them.
My friend Usha was appointed as PGT to teach Sanskrit by a school administrator. But her appointment was for one year. The good reason was #administration wanted to know if Usha was a capable teacher.Unfortunately, my friend Usha's job was terminated after one year, and in place of her a junior teacher in her school who has just completed B.Ed through a correspondence course the same year was appointed permanent PGT Sanskrit teacher in school. This was the real reason to terminate my friend’s job after a year.Real reason is not bad, but real reason is #different from good reason.When someone says, “We need to hire this guy as a Hindi teacher in school. He’s got A, B, C skills and he is good in English also that’s a great reason. The real reason the guy in question is married to sdministrator cousin sister. The real reason might not be #bad. But there’s #ALWAYS a real reason that’s different than the good reason. It would be good if we could find out the real reason.In essence, a good reason is the explanation you give, while the real reason is the deeper, often #unspoken, driver behind the actionFor every good reason, there is probably to design truth for a lie.
In other words, there is a better reason to tell the truth.From your personal experiences you will see that a person always has two reasons for doing any activity, which a person can put in two categories 1.Good reason 2.Real reason.The best is if a person can know about good reason and real reason.
Moral: If possible #accept real reason and move forward. If somehow you are not convinced with real reason and you think that it is not a good reason, just #forgo the same and look for other opportunities in life and work for them.https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/296645246431Sukarma ThareAlumnus IITK India
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