When someone treats us like an option and they move on when we are not serving their wants and needs, that crushes us.
The pain is more about the thought that we don’t mean the half of what they mean to us compared to how they treated us as an option.
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You keep it inside until one day you can’t and share it with a close one. They might give you a lot of advice, but at the core, it’s all the same.
Being available for her 24/7, helping her with each and every problem.
That made her value you less.
She thought you were stale and boring. Her interest died.
So what’s the solution?
Don’t value her too much. Treat her like any other person.
How can I treat her like any other person when she is the most important person to me?
Is it really a crime to treat another human being with proper respect and care, especially if you love that person?
And what if I stop being nice and the next person I meet wants me to be a nice person?
Do I have to change for her too?
I don’t think being a nice person is bad, I think it’s a blessing. Of course, nice people get hurt throughout their lives.
But whoever they come in contact with, these nice people change their lives forever. Teaches them that there is still good in the world and what real humanity feels like.
And if we don’t treat our loved ones nicely, then how else we are going to show them our love?
Now ladies just change the she to he and this will apply to you too!
Thank you for staying until the end!
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