I should be the captain of the ‘I Hate My Life Squad’. I don’t even remember when I started feeling this way.
I am a private guy so I don’t say it out loud in public or while I am with others. But my actions clearly describe this feeling.
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I am sure it started when I had to do things, I don’t want to. But because of some pressure, I had to keep on doing them. And slowly but steadily I started hating myself for not standing up for myself.
One of these days I asked myself a question, how does life come into play in all these?
After all, it was my choice to do the things that I don’t like, be someone whom I don’t know etc. Life had nothing to do with it.
Often we don’t think this deeply and blame life for our own shortcomings.
But after a deep reflection, I realize it is not the life I hate, but myself.
Just think about it for a moment, how can we hate life?
It is because of this life we get to be alive and be on this earth. See, hear, smell and feel so many beautiful things around us.
My life is as same as anyone else’s.
In fact, we should feel blessed that we are born with a healthy mind and body.
There are so many people who are not. They have to struggle every day. A struggle that they didn’t start, but their life started for them. They are the ones who should blame it.
Not us.
Our lives are steady. And the problems that make us feel like we hate our lives can be handled if we change our approach.
Now many would say, it’s not that simple!
Of course not. But it is the price you have to pay if you want to see the beautiful side of life and stop hating yourself.
So before anything else, ask the right question first!
Thank you for staying until the end!
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