We want things, people, opportunities,... and sometimes we get them, sometimes we don't.
When we get what we want, everything is good. Happiness, pride, gratitude.
But when we don't? That's when anger and sadness kick in and our self-esteem and self-confidence falters a little.
Why not me? Why can everyone else and I can't? Why did he get it and I didn't?....These are the normal questions we start to ask ourselves after a failure.
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But there are others that we forget, such as whether we really wanted that thing and then whether we were really ready and open to receive it.
The society in which we grow up, and often together with people close to us, forces us to set limits and in most cases we forget to remove them. We get used to believing that we don't deserve it, that we can't achieve much, that it doesn't exist or that it can't be done.
But the universe is limitless.
There are resources for everyone and we can have everything we want without taking from someone else. Let's not forget that everyone wants something else, so your happiness should not be based on someone else's unhappiness.
The act of asking is the same whether we ask for the minimum or the maximum. Everyone has the right to want and ask for whatever he or she wants, as long as he or she firmly believes that he or she will receive it.
But an essential detail that we omit when we desire someone to be with us, a better job, a new car, to lose a pound etc... is also to give ourselves permission to receive it.
More to the point, let's push aside limits, open up and accept.
What would it be like to order exactly what you want online, and answer the courier on the phone, but not want to open the door? Something like that.
Allowing ourselves to receive. To prepare for what we want. Let's know that we are living up to our desires and fully deserving of whatever it is.
What we want is set aside for us, we just have to make it happen. If something isn't for you, you can't even conceive of ever wanting it.
Why and for what?
The first step to getting something is to know what you want. Not saying you know, but actually knowing.
The moment you conceive that you could have something, that something is already set aside for you.
Then why you want it and most importantly for what. With, the more your goal will help more people, the faster you can reach it.
How?
Intention. Without the intention to ask for something no one will know we want it... Without the intention to have something we can't even get it.
And then Grattitude and Permission...to open ourselves
Let it come to you, and then allow to accept your desire, appreciating it before and after it comes to you.
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