Is There a Problem with Being Single?
Someone asked me today, "Why are you still single? Are you happy being single?"
As for me, it's my choice to stay single right now because my wounds haven't healed 100%. It takes a long process. I was truly, madly, deeply in love for almost four years, but suddenly he told me that he never loved me anymore because he realized everything.
It was really hard for me to accept everything because I was too much in love with him. I felt depressed, anxious, and overthought everything. But despite all that, I never hated him because I respect his decision. I accepted it with all my heart, even though I was in so much pain and hurt. Because I loved him so much, I set him free.
That's why I'd rather choose to be single, and I'm still moving forward right now. I'm happy being single, even though I haven't totally healed — but I know someday, I'll be okay. And maybe someday, I'll fall in love again with someone — I just don't know when. I'm still waiting for that someone, but as of now, I'm already happy, even if I still miss him.
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