Your good habits trigger them.

People will force you to change the good in you to an extent, when you will start feeling like "Am I wrong".

There are certain values and habits that I usually follow.

because of which my friends called me boring, old fashioned and what not.

When I don't abuse anyone they say it's normal.

When I say that I don't drink then again they say it's normal.

When I don't play with people's emotions they say it's normal.

Who made all this "normal"??

The ones who are doing all this.

Doesn't make them right in any way.

Even after knowing that you and your values are good, You still choose to change them in peer pressure.

Never ever do that, Be the person your mom thinks you are!

and my mom always hated abusing, drinking, smoking and cheating.

So choose your own "Modern".