I have recently attended a family gethering and there I saw a boy sitting in a corner and not playing with others kids. Then I approach him and start conversation with him then he mention " I want to grew up fast" , I ask " Why " , you should enjoying playing with other kids. He replied " I wanted to own a big house, wanted to go trips with friends, earning a lot of money, if I grew then I can achieve these things in no time".
I was shocked at that moment then I realized it is happening with every single teenager , child and even with youngsters. That's why everyone expecting so much from themselves and making big dream but forget to start working on it. It is not happening with career and making money, it is happening with relationship also.
- Social media :- social media which everyone is consuming, watching videos of building their new houses, building their career, watching them earn money in fastest way, having a loving & caring partner, having glowing & clear skin. These are nothing just giving them comparison between influencer on screen and themselves in houses watching them. This things makes them feels like loser then they are depressed, rushed over to achieve everything in their 20s.
- Society's mindset :- we are still controlled by society mindset, which is job at 20-24, marriage at 25-27 then house at 30 which is impossible to achieve. Comparing yourself with others is worst way to ruin your life.
How we overcome this problem and start living the life fullest is to WAIT , I think waiting is perfect answer WAIT not for right time WAIT for enjoying the moment when your hard work pays off.
- PATIENCE :- I must say that if patience is first thing everyone learn, because sometimes, nothing works only patience. If you are doing anything like wanted to clear skin then you must take care of you're skin, stay hydrated and choose products on your type, by doing skin care only for 1 week, you're expecting " My skin will like a tube light, ohh my little baby, that's not happening, maybe it's take time of 1 months and maintaining the clear skin, you really patience. Not everything do in overnight, take the time and trust the process.
- Believe in yourself :- maybe we are forget that prioritize ourselves is biggest gift you can gift to you're mind and body. If you are doing something then don't compare yourself with others, you're are giving your efforts to that things, that's matter, if someone achieve it before us, it's okay maybe he/she gives more efforts than you. Why other success matter, only matter is your success, then take your time. Appreciate yourself you are not giving up instead you are improving yourself and trusting the process.
- Different story :- everyone in this world is different, everyone's have different personality, everyone's have different mindset, everyone's have different story then everyone's have there own Weaknesses and strength.
- Small steps :- start with small steps and goals, count your day only not entire your year in one time.
Start investing your time in improving yourself and trust the process.
Don't rush to Achieve everything, start doing things one by one.
Thanks for reading 🫀
Stay blessed ☘️
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