I am science teacher in government school. My friend Radha got married in nice family. Radha had two sister in laws. She used to treat them like her own sisters. When Radha’s sister in law Mira got married, Radha used to take care of big- small need of Mira. Radha was Mira #cushion where she could load her all types of feelings and request for #needs.
Unfortunately Radha’s husband lost his job and he has to settle for lower salary job. Radha was in #financial crisis. At that time Mira never gave helping hand to Radha. Radha was disappointed.
I said “Radha please stop thinking about financial help from Mira. If she is mature she will think of doing something positive for you. Forget your help you #rendered to Mira with love and honesty. Think positive God has given you that positivity of helping your sister in law. You did that whole heartedly. “
Radha sustained through that difficult period. Fortunately her husband got good job of high salary after two years Her financial crisis got over.
Radha realised the importance of helping people in need. Wishful thinking that one will get help from same person whom one has helped is not right. Unfortunately that #equation never works .
Moral-while helping someone it is never #advisable to think that same person will help me back when I need.
Alumnus IIT K