After Marriage

    Sukarma Thareja
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    When I was young I distinctly remember I 
    never used to #help mother in #house hold work.
    I was always busy in my #academic and non academic
    activities.
    After I got #married I realized how much mothers
    do a lot of hardwork for the #family - cooking
    different types of #meals to satisfy everyone’s needs, #cleaning every thing big or
    small .These are not easy things to do.

    Mothers may not #accept that they sometime feel
    that they are doing #thankless job,but they are
    broken inside for #staying at home all
    the time and #waiting for kids to come home
    everyday. ( I know father's do lot of hard work) , but here
    I wish to concentrate on things what I realized
    after marriage. Cooking is a basic skill - it is not a man
    or a woman #skill, I treat cooking as something
    one does to #pamper one self.
    .All this I realized after marriage.
    I wish I had always been that way at home
    before the marriage but #alas I was not.
    If you happen to marry a right person and
    you get #lucky with the situations -marriage
    is #freedom.Parents won't be scared of
    what you do anymore. But if luck is not in your
    favour things after marriage can be #complicated.
    . After marriage I realized home is where your
    #husband lives. Everything that you lived before
    Was #temporary.Before marriage I always wanted
    to see my mother when ever I come home, like
    I will be #shouting ,ma “ from the door itself
    until I find her.
    Now after marriage I search for #him(husband) .
    After marriage priorities change in life. Marriages are very ₹₹hard to work on,
    but the only way it works is when - “ Both of them wanted to make it work” .#Respect for
    Each other is key. This also
    I realized after #marriage.

    sukarma.thareja.knp@gmail.com

    Sukarma Thareja

    Alumnus IITK
    India